Via Facebook, I heard about my 30th high school class reunion. I was enthusiastic about helping organize it, but as these things sometimes go, life got in the way of my plans and I moved on to other tasks.
I planned to go to the reunion, although I wasn’t nearly as enthusiastic when the time came to make the reservations. I caved in when my sister demanded that I attend as she wanted to make sure she would have someone to talk to. Had I thought about this for even 10 seconds, I would have realized that making small talk with people you haven’t seen for 30 years has to be as easy as falling off a log. “What have you been doing for the last 30 years?” should be good for at least a few minutes of chat. So, I could have realized that she would probably be ok even if I weren’t there. But, I reacted to her request by signing right up.
I’m probably not the only one in the world who is conscious of weighing more than I did in high school, maybe having an extra chin or two, and although I had intended to work out and get fit (superficial, anyone?), it didn’t happen.
A week before the reunion, another opportunity arose that I really wanted to attend, and Greg especially wanted to. But Marcia Brady made an indelible impression on me when she broke her date with nerdy Charley to go out with the BMOC, and suffered for it by getting hit in the nose with a football. “Something suddenly came up” wasn’t going to be MY refrain.
But my OTHER sister suggested that there must be room in life for us to change our minds sometimes. And Greg certainly wanted to attend the Reset group dinner rather than the reunion, and who could blame him? In deference to him, because I love him, not because he’s my “boss,” I chose the Reset group dinner and backed out of the reunion.
So, off my sister went to the class reunion, and off we went to our dinner with friends. We were a bit late because I had attended the service at Crossroads, where “Alli” spoke about authority. It didn’t speak to me a whole lot but it was a good message.
I had such great memories of our time with these people for those six weeks, but the dinner was a lot different than the small group experience. At one point, there was a lot of political talk flying across the table and I actually interrupted and changed the subject to one that seemed like we might have more of a chance of talking about ourselves in a deeper way. But, that didn’t really happen. The evening was less than satisfying and not nearly as stimulating as I expected it would be.
Driving home, I wondered if I had made a mistake in choosing the dinner over the reunion.
After service on Sunday, we were hanging out in the atrium and all of a sudden I realized that two of my high school classmates were standing near me. They were in town for the reunion, and visiting Crossroads the morning after. We chatted for a minute and it was nice to see them, but I realized that I was quite happy to just catch up for that short time, and the mini-reunion that I had experienced was quite satisfactory.
Funny thing was that I felt like I looked nice, which I don’t often feel these days. So, no worries about the weight or chins. I enjoyed seeing my classmates, but was happy with the brief time we had. Realized it had been the right choice to attend the dinner, even though it was less than riveting, because my choice honored Greg, and ultimately worked out much better than it would have if I had planned the outcome.
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Not that it matters but you look pretty good for going to your 30th. I guess my 20th just came up. I didn't attend, but some of my old pals sent me pictures. You look much hotter than most of the people in the class of 88 at Klein High School. You're also smarter and less of a jerk, so that helps also.
Don't ever worry about how you look. If you dress well, speak well and have passable table manners, you're an asset to any shindig.
What a wonderful comment to wake up to in the morning. Thanks, Gregoire! Love your comments.