Early in April, I posted a poem about how I welcome being wrong and mistaken after starting out thinking I had to be and always was right.
I don’t know if it’s just a brain-wiring thing or a temperament or a habit, but I tend to think VERY literally, taking things at face value. I have to work pretty hard to remember that taking things too literally is one of the ways I end up misunderstanding someone.
Just as I have realized my strong tendency toward literal thinking, I have also begun to learn to practice lateral thinking. Wikipedia tells me . . .
Lateral thinking is solving problems through an indirect and creative approach, using reasoning that is not immediately obvious and involving ideas that may not be obtainable by using only traditional step-by-step logic.
Seems like Albert Einstein was onto this idea way before Mr. Edward deBono coined the term lateral thinking, when he said, ‘We can’t solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.”
Just today, I had a disappointing experience of literal thinking going awry. Someone I love is headed to jail tomorrow for a five-day stay. I had googled “how to prepare for jail.” One site said inmates are not permitted to take books into the jail, as they can be a place to hide drugs, but that books can be shipped from Amazon. With that, I spent quite a bit of time looking for books that he might like, and then I reserved like 87 books at the library, toted them home, and he went through them and chose five that I was going to buy and ship to the jail. Once I had them in my Amazon cart, I decided to double check the website for the rules and regs. Well. This particular jail does not allow books to be sent to inmates.
Coming to accept my natural way of thinking as being quite literal has allowed me to move beyond it into new methods of solving problems, asking questions, finding solutions, and communicating. That is, as long as I catch the fact of the literal thinking in time! I don’t criticize myself anymore for this; I just understand it’s the way my brain works. And if there’s one thing I’m all about, it’s being creative in my life.
Are you more of a literal thinker or a lateral thinker? Or something else?
Is it possible I am a lateral thinker (by professional training) and literal speaker (by upbringing)? Hmmm…
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Hey Nancy is it easier to comment on this blog??
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Yes, indeed. I personal thank you from me!
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I think I am a literal thinker by nature, but have taught myself to think more creatively… interesting food for thought!
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Maybe all of us are literal thinkers by nature? Or most of us. It seems that many of us must learn how to think more creatively.
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finitely a literal thinker in recovery. I am creative in so many other ways I want to think that way too.
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I am a creative thinker. I know there is always another way to do something then the straight forward way. I was raised to think “where there is a will, there is a way” which sometimes gets me in trouble because I can vision stuff and get started then get stumped and frustrated. My husband on the other hand is a Literal person and it drives me insane.
Thanks for stopping by earlier on my blog and I certainly enjoyed the read. Never thought about Literal and lateral thinking before.
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I don’t know. It always takes me awhile to understand terms such as literal thinking and lateral thinking. My mind does a combination of straight line thinking and spiral-like thinking, which I define as skirting the perimeter and up and down around the straight line, if that makes sense.
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I think I might be more lateral than literal because I often want to do things the way I think is best, not the way others do it. Sometimes it works, and sometimes there’s a really good reason why things are done a particular way… like assembling IKEA furniture – LOL!
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I am an extremely logical ( literal) thinker, i have a problem understanding poems and people in my age ( 16)
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I tend to think most of us have a little of both, depending on the circumstances — with one probably more “dominant” than the other.
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